Top 5 Secrets of Attaining The State of Forgiveness

🌱 Top 5 Secrets of Attaining The State of Forgiveness with SUMANT K KAUL

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5 Steps to Forgiveness

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They say that you shouldn't give your trust out for free—that you should only trust someone after they've earned it. I've never really followed this rule. I take a quite opposite route actually and simply trust those who haven’t showed me that I can't or that I shouldn't 🤔. But the reality of the matter is, people will double-cross you and go back on their word no matter what. That's what we get for being human—we make mistakes and feel the repercussions of others as well.

But what’s perhaps more important than whether or not someone lies to you or betrays your trust is how they treat you after the matter. Do they show remorse? Are they sincerely sorry? Sometimes the answer is yes, and sometimes the whole experience proves who you should show your own loyalty to 🤝.

Regardless, you have to first take the steps to forgive them—even if you’re not doing it for them but for yourself. Because holding a grudge can weigh you down and it's just not worth the suffering. So here are five steps to take to forgive someone:

Step 1: Reflect on the Situation

The first step to forgiving someone is to reflect on what happened. Figure out exactly what transpired, why or even if you’re upset, where the betrayal stemmed from, if the whole thing was avoidable, and so on. This will help you understand exactly how everything went down so you can then accept that it happened. You should also accept your initial reaction and feelings related to the event, as you cannot control them.

Step 2: Put Yourself in the Other Person’s Shoes

Once you’ve taken the opportunity to reflect on the situation and your feelings, try putting yourself in the other person’s shoes 👣. Could you have found yourself in the same predicament? Or think back to a time when you were in a similar situation—we’ve all been the offender at some point in our lives. Doing this will help you remember that all human beings are flawed. We all make mistakes, we act selfishly, and we hurt others in the process. In addition, maybe they found themselves between a rock and a hard place: whichever course of action they took, they would hurt you or someone else. So really take the time to consider not only your own feelings, but all factors.

Step 3: Acknowledge Your Pain

Recognize the pain you’ve experienced and allow yourself to feel it. Don’t try to numb it or ignore it, as this can lead to longer-term issues. Embrace your emotions and process them. This is a crucial step in the healing journey of forgiveness 🌟.

Step 4: Let Go of Expectations

You must let go of any expectations you had of the person or the situation. They may never ask for forgiveness, or they might not even realize what they did wrong. Forgiveness is about releasing these expectations and the control that person has over your emotional well-being.

Step 5: Practice Compassion

In practicing compassion, you begin to see the other person as a human being with their own struggles, fears, and pain. This doesn’t mean you condone their actions, but rather you understand them on a deeper level. It's a powerful step towards forgiveness and one that can lead to personal growth and inner peace 🕊️.

By following these five steps, you embark on a journey of healing and understanding. Forgiveness isn’t just about letting go of the past—it’s about creating a future where you are free from the chains of resentment and bitterness. Join SUMANT K KAUL in this transformative course to discover the top secrets of attaining the state of forgiveness and begin your path to liberation and peace. 🫡